第21章 创造自己的生活（1 / 2）

howtobuildyourlife

创造自己的生活

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everypersoncreateshisorherownreality.authorshipofyourlifeisoneofyourabsoluterights；yetsooftenpeopledenythattheyhavetheabilitytothelifetheydesire.theylookpastthefundamentaruththatitisnotourexternalresourcesthatdetermineoursuccessorfailure，butratherourownbeliefinourselvesandourwillingnesstocreatealifeaccordingtoourhighestaspirations.

clearly，thechallengehereistocreateandownyourownreality.whenyoubegintoliveyourlifeunderstandingthatwhatyoumakeofitisuptoyou，youareabletodesignitaccordingtoyourauthenticchoicesanddesires.youwilllearnlessonshere，suchasresponsibilityandlimitlessness，whichwillleadyoutothelifeyouweremeanttolive.theselessonsprovideyouwiththeessentiaoolsyouneedinordertotakecommandofyourlife.

totakeresponsibilitymeansyouadmityouraccountabilityandacknowledgeyourinfluenceandroleinthecircumstancesinwhichyoufindyourself.itmeansyouareanswerableforyourbehaviorandyoufullyacceptanyconsequencescreatedbyyouractions.

生活是由自己创造的。而且，人人都享有创造生活的权利。但如今，人们总是说自己没有能力描绘美好的生活。实际上，他们忽视了一个根本的事实——决定我们成功与失败的并不在于任何外部条件，而在于我们是否有实现自己心中热望的信心与积极性。

无疑，这种挑战就是如何创造并掌握自己的生活。一旦你明白自己是生活的创造者，那么你就可以按照自己的选择与希望来创造生活。在这里，你将会学到如何承担责任与发挥无限潜能，它们会带你走进你想要的生活，并教会你如何主宰生活。

承担责任指的是要认可自己应承担的责任，并了解自己对周围环境所产生的影响和作用。这就意味着，你要对自己的行为负责，要完全承担由自己的行为所造成的一切后果。

totakeresponsibilitywillpropelyouforwardandonwardtoyourgreatergood.iknowofawomannamedmarywhosestoryofpersonalresponsibilityhasalwaysinspiredme.marywasbornincubaandmovedtomiamiwithherfamilywhenshewastwoyearsold.theylivedinterriblepovertyinadangerouspartofthecity，wherecrimeanddrugswerepartofeverydaylife.marywasdetermined，however，evenattheyoungageofeight，tomakesomethingofherlifeotherthanfollowtheexpectedrouteofbecomingamaid，oracashieratthelocalsupermarket.soshegotherselftoschooleachandeveryday，sometimeshavingtostepoverdrunkspassedoutinthedoorway，justsoshecouldgeteducationandgiveherselfabetterlife.

maryeventuallyleftmiami，obtainedagoodeducation，andfosteredhernaturalmusicability.marycouldhavegivenintothelifeshewasborninto，orremainedmiredinblamingherparentsandcuureforhercircumstances.shecouldhaverefusedtotakeresponsibilityforthesituation.instead，however，marytookresponsibilityforherselfandcreatedalifeofwhichshecanbeproud.

responsibilityisamajorlessonofaduhood.ifyoustillhaven’tlearnedthelessonofresponsibility，it‘snottoolate.remember，lifewillprovideyouwithplentyofopportunitiestogetitright.